<![CDATA[Criminal, con artist- Per-Otto Lekare - Blog]]>Sun, 09 May 2010 06:50:08 -0800Weebly<![CDATA[Admiration* / incredulity]]>Mon, 22 Jun 2009 01:12:16 -0800http://www.lekare.net/1/post/2009/06/admiration-incredulity.htmlOf/at Peos audacity, nerve, ego. They are still paying off.

Peo has partaken in an article for a Swedish computer magazine. Subject: being harassed on the net, which there is truth in; if you choose to define my spreading of the truth as harassment. No, what amazes me is the fact that he has managed to dupe/con the journalist as well. The facts that the journalist bases the article's "point" on are all hearsay! The journalist has based a story on the word of Peo, where most of the facts are easily disprovable: he has written a story without any factual/ background checking (which I would suppose to be a breach of etiquette/ against correct journalistic practice?!). I can only surmise that Peo has used his background and contacts, not to mention his gift for lying, to achieve the publication of this article.

Conclusion: Peo is trying to restore his credibility. I suppose the logic is that if he can actual show an article which backs his version(s) refuting my allegations, people will believe him. Because of course, everything you read in the paper is true!!!! (Hahaha!). I have to admit it that it's a great move, how many people will think that a proper journalist would actually write a story without any evidence (solely based on hearsay)...

Silver lining: I have achieved what I set out to do, i.e. make it more difficult for him to lie and mislead people. As he has actually gone to an extreme such as this, his credibility must be shot- good, great, fantastic for me and the world in general (or at least his potential future victims).



* If he was using the audacity, nerve, ego to do some good; e.g. in the manner of Robin Hood, or just in a manner that didn't actually hurt individuals- let's say like the Great Train Robbery .



 





]]><![CDATA[Appreciation]]>Fri, 12 Jun 2009 16:22:04 -0800http://www.lekare.net/1/post/2009/06/appreciation.html...of the minor things in life, not even the finer;).

More to the point: not being ashamed of physical aspect of the person you're with in public, nor my son  having to explain to his classmates that the man picking him up is not his grandfather.... During my time with Peo, I was (though proclaiming to his face his gorgeousness) slightly embarrased to be seen with him, only feeling comfortable in company where he had the chance to charm people with his wit and intelligence.

I loved him for (what I thought to be) his personality, his accomplishments and multitude of interests. In retrospect, with the knowledge that (maybe) 90% of all he ever told me was lies, it is easy to laugh at my own foolishness. I admired him for scuba diving (though when at the underwater hotel in Florida he wasn't allowed to dive down), having a pilots license (recreational aircraft), emotionally supporting his friends (notably Helen whom he supposedly stayed with in hospital during the time her prematurely born baby fought for his life), financially aiding his (according to him) loser sister dealing with the notoriously deranged exhusband and coping with new boyfriend dying in cancer, not to mention his keeping the peace between his siblings and his haradan schizophrenic mother suffering from KOL (not sure what it is in English, but some kind of lung disease), not to mention his supporting his wife against the dysfunctional inlaws with the brother-in-law sponging off the parents and possibly being a pedophile.

What can I say? I have never laughed as much, as during the good times with Peo; but I am laughing equally much now, after healing and gaining perspective, because of what (not who) he actually is.

So, I'm grateful. Believe it or not. I have learnt to appreciate things that matter (shallowly enough, also the importance of looks) like capability, goodness, honesty. I also appreciate what it has taught me about myself: that even though I may be gullible, my heart is in the right place: I need not resort to lies, because the truth conquers in the end; I still believe in the goodness of people (though I require a bit more proof nowadays;).

Financially and timewise, I may have lost a lot. But... as to who I am and what is important, I am the winner.

]]><![CDATA[The flu]]>Sun, 03 May 2009 10:37:43 -0800http://www.lekare.net/1/post/2009/05/the-flu.htmlI wish there wasn't one. Unfortunately I'm not omnipotent, so I can't do anything about the flu. I just hope that one of the deceased is Peo, as he is someone who the world is better off without. Better to dance on his grave than some decent undeserving soul passing away unnecessarily. It is always  sad when there is death involved, but in certain cases it is beneficial for all, apart from the deceased.

]]><![CDATA[Empathy, and/or lack of it + "letting it go"]]>Sun, 01 Mar 2009 17:24:24 -0800http://www.lekare.net/1/post/2009/03/nothing-of-importance.htmlI admit to being female, emotional, feeling. At the same time, I would rather have feelings and empathy, than being the kind of emotionally hardened person who can shrug off hurt and betrayal as easily as a duck sheds water. I believe that if you are not easily hurt you are more likely to hurt other people- if you do not feel, then you probably don't believe other people to feel either.  

I got an anonymous email the other day, through a redirecting server, from a coward : "Even though we're getting a bit jaded by now, your fans still perversely enjoy the undying hatred and desire for revenge (call it truth if you like), don't stop girl, keep it up, never forgive, never let go.
In the end you'll become a famous web-celebrity and a classic jihadist for all women scorned." What amuses me (apart from the failed comic side, the idiocy) is the cowardice of anonymity, plus the obvious attempt at riling me (which only worked as a mention in the blog).

On a more serious note, aimed at people with empathy, or at the very least, decency and honor: letting it go is a process, a difficult one; due to the amount of time and energy that was involved- daily lies for 18 months, $ 50 000 US (not counting presents, trips/holidays, telephone calls), the continued mail arriving for Peo at my adress, my student loan (subjects studied only because it was needed for our future, not useful apart from that), the Swedish system not dealing with Mexico properly. 

This blog is about my dealing with a horrendous experience, it is part of my letting go, moving on. Throw mud at me, try to discredit me... nothing will change that Peo Lekare is a liar, thief, criminal. He will recieve his just desserts, no one can avoid their karma for ever.






 





]]><![CDATA[The insanity continues!]]>Thu, 05 Feb 2009 10:12:01 -0800http://www.lekare.net/1/post/2009/02/morality.htmlLook at the comments posted by Peo. I honestly give up; there is no point in wasting my time contradicting his continued crap... he rants and raves but all of it is irrelevant and uninteresting, not to mention illogical and without any specific point.   
Being a compulsive/ pathological liar, is something Peo constantly proves without any involvement from me- simply by contradicting himself. At least he is helping me grow older, laughter is good for the health and old age. LAO: So I am not actually a suspect, just reported (by him) as possibly comitting a crime; (which even so would be a matter that the police would have to have on record/ inform me of)? Obviously his proof and my crimes (whatever they are supposed to be) are very tangible and serious, which is why I am already a suspect? If anything I had done was illegal (and terrible) wouldn't something have happened by now (5 months after his supposed report)?

I will not even bother to comment on the rest of his writings, because of the senselessness of this entire situtation (this "cyberbashing" is just such a waste of time, and I truly hate it because it is even more stupid than throwing real mud). The truth is the truth, and nothing written can change it.

Suffice to say, the lies should come as no surprise. He lied (and provingly still does), stole, conned, put me (and my son) through mental torture, cheated, has no empathy, sympathy, decency, honour. And since he apparently can't earn (any or enough?) money honestly, selling himself (with promises and lies) was no problem; thus making him a prostitute (rather lower than one, at least prostitutes are upfront about their services). 

I may have been a fool, with more love, and money, than sense; but I will always be a good person, who behaves decently and with honour. Whatever I have ever done- I have NEVER lied, stolen, cheated, and/or betrayed.

As to the senselessness/ futility of this entire thing: I have this blog to vent my hurt and anger, it is my emotional release valve, my way of blowing off steam. I am still upset and trying to come to grips with the enormous emotional injury that Peo caused me (who knows if I ever will completely, I will definitely never forget). I am trying my hardest to find peace within myself, but it is extremely difficult- what he did was cruel and low, not to mention criminal- and what bugs me the most is that he is managing to evade the Swedish legal system by hiding on the other side of the world. If he were to recieve just punishment (apart from having to actually be himself... which could be thought to be enough;), then I would be able to "let it go". As it is, that his crimes (legal and moral) have had no negative effect on his life, irritates me to no end. So I just have to wait, time heals all wounds (right?): but more importantly the legal system will (hopefully, as it is the Swedish one) eventually catch up with him. Above all else, I want to forget that Peo, and all that went with him, happened! I don't want to remember, but at the same time I can't manage to ignore the injustice. This blog is a constant reminder of the worst time in my life, at the same time one of the few ways I can deal with the worst feelings- a catch22... The day I meet him in court, will be the day I stop writing here; when justice has been done, this blog will be superflous. 

PS. I will admit though that a website like this is illegal in Sweden. This is due to the fact Sweden is unlike most countries: even though all I say is provable and the truth, it is not legal to spread the truth if it may be unpleasant for a specific individual (unless you are doing it under an editor). But as the website is not Swedish, nor written in Swedish, the person shown is not living here (and if coming here will be served), there are probably millions of sites breaking Swedish laws........well...... I suppose, I can live with breaking the law; I couldn't care less actually- I will happily meet Peo in any court, because I just want him to be served. I am hoping to meet him in court, for him to be tried. And if I end up in court by his hand, I will use the opportunity to maximise public knowledge of him and his crimes.









]]><![CDATA[Swedish legal system (and believability)]]>Wed, 28 Jan 2009 13:00:49 -0800http://www.lekare.net/1/post/2009/01/swedish-legal-system-and-believability.htmlSweden has never been known for it's effective/ good legal system (unless of course you are a criminal, because then it is probably the best in the world). Being in Mexico facilitates Peo's avoidance of being served papers (yes, official legal document- not the Financial Times;). I am sure justice, divine AND legal, will catch up with him. Now what I find funny, is the fact that if I weren't completely in the right, he should be anxious to meet me in court- prove me the insane, lying woman he claims me to be; wouldn't it be great for him to prove that he is innocent? Of course not, because he can't prove his innocence; thus he will not accept the sent papers.

Sometimes it is just simpler to chose to believe what someone tells you, because the truth seems too improbable. If a person close to you, add the factor of the truth being too hurtful (caring about/ loving a person who is not who you think/ doesn't actually exist). My story sounds improbable to the people who are biased in Peo's favour- and to all others (who haven't seen Peo in action with their own eyes) makes me seem like a complete fool: a silly, gullible idiot with more money than sense. My choice of man also makes me seem half blind (looks and fashion sense), okay with personal grooming issues (eyebrows, nose hair, warts, persistent fungal infection on the inner thighs ), and acceptive of terrible dental hygiene (though at the very end I payed for his monstrous plaque to be removed)- obviously I truly loved him (for the inner qualities he led me to believe he had).

If my story wasn't the truth, I wouldn't be so adamant about making it known- as is the case, all I say is the truth (which I can prove irrefutably). Sooner or later, everybody who doesn't know who the being (wish I could call him human, but sadly he lacks alot of the neccesary qualities) really is, will find out- he can not keep up his pretense for ever, in the end, people will always personally see his true face.

 



]]><![CDATA[Business]]>Tue, 06 Jan 2009 05:03:22 -0800http://www.lekare.net/1/post/2009/01/business.html

Two people gave Peo new recommendations on Linkedin recently; on the same day, both working together.  The 7th of December… one stating his high integrity.  These two recommenders are working together with Peo as a main go-between/ he is the laison between two continents (not to mention the owner of the principal Swedish company’s name in the Americas). 
If these two recommenders had any moral integrity they would have tried to disprove my accusations, by e.g. asking for my proof, instead of joining forces to protect their joint business venture. If they did not have doubts about Peo's effect on the cooperation, they would not have felt the need to do such a thing- nor would a phrase such as “high integrity” have been used, "the lady doeth protest too much". Saving face, saving business - fully understandable, but at the same time a questionable move... what happens when Peo is proven (by others than me or in a court of law) the criminal he actually is? They could, at worst, be directly targeted (though why would he bite the hand that feeds him?) or , at the very least, stand there with the shame of recommending a criminal. Working with a creative, convincing liar can be an asset in some cases, but those cases must be when the person can deliver what he says. In regards to me, I should like to see the police reports- as the police in Sweden don't have any- and I would love him to face me in court, because that is my objective (he needs to be served his papers which is coplicated by him be

I have been in touch with one of his business contacts, who strongly suspects that Peo has behaved untowardly and illegally- he is trying to find proof. I am hoping that this blog entry will cause Peo to reimburse the person in question- as even if proof is found it would probably not be enough for a jail sentence or worth the monetary judicial costs to fight for it. I name no names, so maybe Peo will have problems figuring out which person (of the many I am sure he has conned) to give money to;).


And though not of real importance, on Linkedin Per-Otto has Uppsala University on his education- to be absolutely correct he studied there but never got a degree.


 



]]><![CDATA[Scary?]]>Fri, 12 Dec 2008 10:37:33 -0800http://www.lekare.net/1/post/2008/12/scary.htmlI recieved an email, from Peo, this morning. I need not even comment! It was written in Swedish, but here is the translation:

"oh how I dislike you... hate you above all else. At least I have two completely wonderful children who love me, and wake me upp with kisses and hugs every day... you don't even have one (1) child who likes you, how does that feel? Whos father smokes dope daily and has beat you up? He (your son) finds it difficult as shit to even hug you. He finds it inconcieveable to kiss you. He only gets happy about big LEGO-toys (your fault). Bad mother or what? You are worthless, and actually, despicable. I hate you as I have never hated anyone ever.

 
The original:
"oj vad jag tycker illa om dig...... hatar dig över allt annat. Jag har åtminstone två helt underbara barn som älskar mig och som väcker mig till pussar o kramar precis varje dag... du har inte ens ett (1) barn som tycker om dig, hur känns det? Vars pappa röker braj dagligen och har spöat upp dig? Han (din son) tycker det är skitjobbigt att över huvudtaget krama dig. Han tycker det är helt otänkbart att pussa dig. Han blir bara glad över större LEGO-lerksaker (ditt fel). Dålig mamma or what? Du är värdelös och, faktiskt, vedervärdig. Jag hatar dig som jag aldrig hatat någon någonsin."





]]><![CDATA[Comments]]>Tue, 09 Dec 2008 00:12:06 -0800http://www.lekare.net/1/post/2008/12/comments.htmlI invite all readers to analyse comments by David- compare them to Maria Luisa's comment- then compare them all to what, and how, Peo writes. To me, it is (glaringly) obvious that they are all written by the same person. If you can read, you can see the similarities. I am not suprised, the level of honor/ dignity/ rightousness relating to Peo has so far been nil.... How low can you go, how low can you be? Well, when digging your own hole, seemingly very far. And I don't have any problems with these comments, I truly don't, because I know the truth- and if I did have problems, wouldn't I just erase them (or like Peo not even allow comments)?

It saddens me that there are no known supporters, character witnesses standing up for him, but it doesn't surprise me. For lack of support he fabricates his own. Considering his earlier behaviour, it is only to be expected of him to create "alter egos"- you do it in person for (almost) two years; why stop to bluff, fake, lie, manipulate? His behavior to me was not a one off, it must be his nature.

I believe that he still thinks that he can bluff his way out of this, deny and demonify me... then all will be well. Let him say what he wants, he is the proven liar. The truth is the truth, it can not hurt me in any way. Obviously, the truth worries him though... that I base on statistics from this website (Cuernavaca has a multiple daily return visitor who spends more time on this site than I do).  




 



]]><![CDATA[OJ Simpson]]>Fri, 05 Dec 2008 14:13:26 -0800http://www.lekare.net/1/post/2008/12/oj-simpson.htmlIt's great to know that OJ finally got what he deserved, better late than never.

A parallel to Peo (not that I am saying his crime is equivalent to a brutal murder, though he did brutalise my soul,). My drawn parallel is based on the fact that certain people think they can get away with anything, a facet of the psychopathic mentality, not seeing the consequences or believing in exemption.  He may think he has gotten away with this (not unlikely previous scams/ deceptions too), but one day he will have to face up to it all.  And if he gets away with this (living on the other side of the world does facilitate avoiding Swedish legal consequences), he will sooner or later be punished for some other crime he has committed, or will commit. I hope the punishment will be in Mexico, or some other country, where the jails are unpleasant (to match his soul, personality, behaviour); sorry make that substandard/ horrid/ wretched/ hellish.

And as he is becoming boringly predictable: no I am not projecting, no I am not the one who belongs in jail (as I am sure his response to this blog post would/ will be that). It actually saddens me to see (deduce from his writings) how he is deteriorating- logic and credibility  seem to be completely left out of his fabrications. The reasons it saddens me, is that it was actually his intelligence I fell in love with- but then again, I was wrong about everything else about him. The sadness is not directed at him, it is just sad how so much potential could be wasted.

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